Re-use allocator in parser + lexer benchmarks.
I believe this is the recommended usage when parsing a bunch of files -
to re-use one allocator rather than create a fresh one for each run, so
it makes sense to me that this is what the benchmark should measure.
Doesn't show much difference on CodSpeed because it only runs the
benchmark once, and it treats allocations as free anyway. But I imagine
the difference may show up a bit more in a standard criterion benchmark.
## Why
Due to the usage of `&'alloc mut T` in `oxc_allocator::Box`, and
`bumpalo::collections::Vec` in `oxc_allocator::Vec`, ast types are
currently invariant over their allocator lifetime `'a`. This prevents
`ouroboros` from generating `borrow_*` on ast type fields, leading to
the unfriendly `with_*` api:
c250b288ef/crates/oxc_parser/examples/multi-thread.rs (L82-L84)
## How
- For `oxc_allocator::Vec`, switch to `allocator_api2::vec::Vec`, which
has a covariant relationship with the allocator lifetime.
- For `oxc_allocator::Box`, use `std::ptr::NonNull` which is
specifically designed to be covariant. I don't use
`allocator_api2::boxed::Box` because it holds the allocator for
dropping, so the size is bigger.
## Downside
Now that `oxc_allocator::Box` uses the unsafe `NonNull`. It has to be a
private field to be safe. This make it impossible to do `Box(....)`
pattern matching.
